“I’m a complete human being. I’m very emotional and loving. I feel, I hurt, I give, I take, and also I think. I analyze. I’m a sociologist and anthropologist.” – Erykah Badu
Most ads are filled with huge a long list of physical exercises to develop the body strength. However, few ads display mental and emotional health development programs. Usually, when you get physical cut such as a cut, you apply a bandage or an ointment over.
We come across emotional pains as physical, but we aren’t proactive to heal them. You will agree that most of us are not protecting our psychological well-being as our physical. No matter what setback or trauma you have been affected by some injuries can be reduced with few steps.
Take a look!
Surpass the Effect of Failure
Failure breaks us emotionally and our mental strength. Once we experience it, we get demoralized and lose our emotional capability. Learn the habit of ignoring the misleading thoughts and start accepting the present. Consider whole factors that would have went wrong and look for a new beginning. Doing so will not only improve your confidence; it will also combat to face future problems.
Understand Meaning behind Trauma and Suffering
The first question when people suffer from emotional pain is ‘why me?’ However, people fail to understand that every suffering includes a deep meaning inside it. And, it is your responsibility to understand it and develop as a better person from it. Trust me; such pains make life meaningful.
When we think about distressing events, we rarely observe the situation. Instead, we feel upset and discover negative thoughts, which worsen the situation. Therefore, no matter how strong is the urge brood, you have to control it. And, remember, this is not a one-time issue, it’s a process. So, distract yourself and concentrate on good things in life.
Regain your Self-worth after Heartaches
Heartaches are painful. In fact, these are so painful that one starts blaming himself/herself, thinking there is some problem with them. Their self-confidence crashes and they land up in a miserable condition. Believe in the fact that the motive of life is to become a better person and all other things will fall into place by itself.
Combat Loneliness by Finding Joy
Loneliness creates many problems. Once you are lonely, it is difficult to get along in groups as your confidence decreases. Don’t let yourself transform as a person that you are not. There is nothing wrong in being reserved, but there is something not good if you are always unsocial. Make a list of people whose company you like. Connect with people, understand different personalities, this will turn you a better person.
Don’t let your soul be the prey of sorrows, guilt, trauma and negativity. You are worth this beautiful life of yours, learn from mistakes and never carry grudges. Love yourself and spread happiness all around you.
Build a beautiful tomorrow and a beautiful today!
Written By: Gurpreet Kaur